Thursday 24 November 2005

Naafa And Fat!so? - Objectivism Online Forum

Naafa And Fat!so? - Objectivism Online Forum
Er, quite off topic.

for #1: Who says you have to give up anything altogether, much less permanently? Without turning this into a diet-strategy thread, you can reduce portion sizes and not give up any given food. Unless you meant satiety itself...

for #2: Personally, I hate aerobics and never engage in it. http://www.mikementzer.com/aerobic.html thumbsup.gif

Anyhow, none of that has anything to do with fat litigation, fat "I can't help it" rationalizations, or "fat is beautiful" advocates, which are the subjects of the article and thread.

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Make no mistake about it: it is technology and progress that the nature-lovers are out to destroy.

Television has brought more enjoyment into more lives than all the public parks and settlement houses combined.

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Felix
post Nov 13 2005, 03:53 PM

On-Topic:
Hmm.. I wonder if these Fat!So?- guys understand how self-contradictory their statements are. Either being fat is beautiful, then: What's the problem? Or being fat is bad and caused by genetics, then they just have bad luck. Or it is bad and caused by the diet industy or the fast-food industry, but this is not valid since they have free will. Gee, this is just weird!

This reminds me of something:
I just helped my little sister with her homework about lactose-intolerance. This made me suggest a club where people fight for more lactose-tolerance, since lactose is being socially suppressed. She just gave me that look again. biggrin.gif
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Dan Bidewell
post Today, 08:41 AM


However, it is not caused primarily by an incorrect 'make vs. buy" decision. I think it related more to what is bought.

The malaise is that we are all addicted to the myth of the quick-fix. As you you say, this may be more about what is bought, but that is still the malaise of the quick-fix. Rather than buying a chicken breast, an onion, a turnip, some potatoes and a little butter (or whatever else you need for some stew), people just get the easiest thing they can - a pizza or something. Convenience food is convenient food; it is all part of the quick fix.

Healthy convenience foods are not as readily and as cheaply available as simple ingredients which take time to cook and turn into food. That is the problem - people expect that they should be, and cannot accept that healthier food usually takes longer to prepare than dialling the pizza delivery man and opening the door to pay him. They cannot be bothered eating healthily and opt for the easier option.
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I feel like I'm prejudiced against obese people

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post Mar 12 2005, 04:37 PM


Name: Will



Since I was a kid I never really liked overweight people. As a kid I used to read my "Beano" comics which is from the UK and basically short stories about mischefis children. Anyway there was this one character called fatty and basically his role was the fat guy. He would eat a mountain of food and never excerise. In most other comics and cartoons, fat characters were similarly protrayed the same way.
To me obesity was always seen as a symbol of greed and laziness, even a symbol of opression like the fat emporer who has more than enough food while his nation's people are starving.
As a kid I've also been raised to feel grateful for what you have, I was always reminded about the state of third and second world nations and felt like I should stop making complaints and make the most of myself. This is also one of the main reasons why I dislike overweight people.
When I was 16 I was at a halloween party and my friend came up to me and told me that this girl wanted to go out with me. At the time I honestly thought he joking because she was really fat and ugly and therefore to me really unattractive.
.../ everyone tought it was ok for her to look at me and say she's really attracted to me and really want to go out with me dispite the fact that she knows absolutly nothing about me, but it's not ok for me to look at her and say she's unattractive, so I don't want to go out with her? I used to ask the same people "yeah well why shouldn't she lose the weight then?" they couldn't give an answer "why do you want her to stay fat then?". I couldn't see a reason why she shouldn't lose the weight so I couldn't see a reason why I should accept her for it. I didn't feel sympathetic for her becuase I felt like it was her own fault she was fat so why should I be the one who put up with it.
I know wemen are pressurised into looking attractive, but I think men can be pressured too. ...
I think the only people who do critise the media are really those who are unattractive and who therefore lose out by it. Most of them are hypocrites anyway, They make everyone feel bad for not going out with them because they're unattractive yet thet themselves only want to go out with people they find attractive.
... Likewise if a person chooses to eat an improper diet and not excercie enough, it's their problem-- if they're unfit and unattractive.
I do try to tolerate overweight people and try not to judge them for apperance too much, but I immediatly see a person who is greedy and lazy . Is this expectable or is it another form of discrimination like racism?



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Time flies

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by gnarlin (696263) Alter Relationship on Wednesday November 23, @11:19AM (#14101416)
(http://www.simnet.is/~gnarlin/index.html)
10 years and still no CMYK support, which incidentally is the key feature which is holding the GIMP back from becoming a serious contender with photoshop. One would think that someone or some group would see the value of such a feature in a free software graphics program and have it implemented. If for nothing else then to save money and have a better bargaining position when dealing with vendors of propriatery notoriety [adobe.com].
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Dr Milton Erikson

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by gobbo (567674) Alter Relationship <[moc.xoblaerym] [ta] [htomlem]> on Wednesday November 23, @12:34AM (#14098391)
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This is interesting, but, as usual, an art in the hands of a highly skilled practitioner gets lost in the search for reproducibility. Dr Milton Erikson [google.com] kind of set things off for modern hypnotherapy, but he was extraordinarily perceptive, and generally only took on cases that would work for his methods, so had a resounding success rate.

What was amazing about Erikson was that he noticed that life is rife with trance states, most of them shallow, temporary, and skilfully deployed for survival purposes. Think about this the next time you get home from a tense commute without really remembering exactly how you operated the car.

He found somewhat more suggestible cases, and took advantage of what he saw as our natural facility with trances, and of our heavy reliance on metaphor to get through the day. (Of course, I oversimplify.) Plus he was a damn good psychiatrist. Basically, a prodigy. He would find ways of putting people into trances of various depths, for various lengths of time, using freaky techniques like the rhythm of his voice tuned to the listener's body responses, and barely noticeable emphasis on certain words, not unlike fictional characters in the Dune series. Not easy to reproduce.

His ideas later led to NLP, or Neuro-Linguistic Programming... YMMV.

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A testable theory

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by kentrel (526003) Alter Relationship on Tuesday November 22, @06:48PM (#14096782)
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The language of that posting presupposes that hypnosis was not accepted previously, which in effect is a form of hypnosis! The poster is poorly informed, its been around for a long time, has been accepted by many in the medical, sports and psychiatry fields, with fairly easily testable ideas.

Hypnosis might have a negative reputation if you buy the movie "mind control" version, which has nothing to do with reality, and shame on anyone who even thought it was. It has long been a testable theory, and research has shown that every 90 minutes or so the brain goes into a slightly hypnotic state, daydreaming if you will. This is a natural process of the brain. It's still not known how or why this happens, but the effect has been known for a long time.

It's a very weird thing to demonstrate to someone who's long held the negative "its' a crock of shit" view based on what they've seen on movies or in stage hypnosis.

I'll give you an example of something that a psychotherapist (long story) did for me. When you get into that relaxed state, that's not quite as relaxed as sleeping, but its still a very numb relaxing pleasant feeling, the hypnotist "tests" your state in numerous ways. The most popular one is telling you your eyes are glued shut and no matter how hard you try you cannot open them... then a few minutes later asks you to try, but you will not be able. Every time this happens to me, I *KNOW* I can open my eyes, I'm fucking positive about it, I *KNOW* they're not glued shut, I *KNOW* the hypnotist is a lying bastard, full of shit.. but you know what... I don't wanna... I like them shut. It's difficult to explain, but you just find yourself wanting to go along with fun little things like that.

That's a crude little insight into what a hypnotic state feels like and the level of "control" anyone has over you. Try it yourself, you dont have to believe in it. If anything, its just a great way of relaxation. I use it at night as a cure for insomnia. A guided session helps me get to sleep within about 10 minutes. You might argue that this is just the power of suggestion, or the placebo effect... but that's exactly what's its meant to be.

I also make my own mp3's depending on what I'm looking for.. If preparing for a job interview I run through the interview over and over again in a hypnotic state. It's a great way of mental rehearsing something. Better than just doing it in front of a mirror....


by chromozone (847904) Alter Relationship .../... A persons conditioned reflex response mechanism which is like the body's memory can feel pain from an ordeal that they were not even aware of when the traumatic event was taking place. Many soldiers and others subjected to stresses that they are shocked by have a consciousness that is overwhelmed as if like a conductor falling into an orchestra. When people dont know how to handle their emotions, or are subject to extreme stresses,they lose some conscious awareness and fall into the gears of their own cognitive and emotional machinery. That's the root for a tremendous amount of mental suffering. Not surprisingly many of the original psychic ruptures take place at home and in the schools when people are kids and get upset by the cruelties, neglects, family problems etc. Media, marketers and politicians etc use these mechanisms (even if only indirectly aware of what principles they are using) by emotionalizing groups of people and then giving them ideas and suggestions. WHen adds play that energizing music and give people feelings and ideas they are trying to condition them hypnotically. People will accept such motivations as if it came from them. Hypnotic elements are all around us and yet it's hardly recognized for what it is. A lot more people can be hypnotized that that article states. One reason people can't be hypnotized is because they are hypnotized already by lifes events and stresses. The correct way to use hypnosis to get someone to stop smoking would be to "un-hypnotize" them. Thats why when a person tries hypnosis for smoke cessation it only works for a little while. Hypnotists don't hypnotize people as much as take over a pre existing state. A fact people don't realize about hypnosis is that intellectual people and people who use their imaginations a lot are the best subjects for hypnosis. People who study a lot are used to focusing their minds and they tend to be sensitive to authority ( a good hypnotists greatest asset is a authoritarian manner) - all good conditions for hypnotic manipulation. One reason artists and such suffer is because they are very open in their own minds to all sorts of forces taking their objectivity captive.
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Re:Time flies

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by FooBarWidget (556006) Alter Relationship on Wednesday November 23, @12:54PM (#14102347)
Why are everybody so obsessed with CMYK? Face it: most people are not professional graphics designers and don't need CMYK. If I want to touch up some photos for my homepage, I couldn't care less what CMYK is. If Joe Average wants to create a few drop shadows for his photo gallery, he doesn't need CMYK.

Besides, professionals wouldn't use Gimp even if it supports CMYK. They'd still use Photoshop because that's what they were thaught at school. Implementing CMYK wouldn't solve anything at all - the peopel who complain would just move on to new things to complain about.
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In unrelated news...

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by KingOfGod (884633) Alter Relationship <[moc.liamg] [ta] [adardl]> on Wednesday November 23, @10:09AM (#14100891)
(Last Journal: Thursday October 27, @05:48AM)
Google has just built a LEGO castle.
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Debra Lafave, a 25-year-old female teacher, pleaded gulity to having sex with a 14-yr-old student today. This little vixen "took care" of her student in the classroom once and in a car while the kids 15-yr-old cousin drove them around. I wish I had teachers like this in school. By now, some of you are wondering why I even carried this story. Well to be honest it’s because she looks damn good, and I find the cross around her neck interesting as well. She’s a good Christian girl I bet. On a sidenote though, I found it shocking that she will serve no jail time, whereas this poor woman, gets 30 years! I’m not condoning sex with minors (although I would have considered myself blessed had Debra been my teacher), but 30 years for getting some highschoolers high and banging their brains out hardly seems to merit that amount of time. You can guarantee if she looked like the Debra, she would have received no jail time. You can bet on that. Or maybe Debra got off easy because she’s got the crucifix on :) You decide.
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Virtual Hypnotist related stuff:

Sourceforge Site

Yahoo Group

Beta development versions

Complete history of all my hypnosis software

History chart of my hypnosis software

My hypnosis mp3s and the HypnoHouse software

Original version of the Brainwave Synchronizer: Kyma Mindwave by Michael Herbert with bugfixes by me

Also check out Hypnotizer 2000, which this software is a rewrite of.

HypnoTunnel, an old program modified by me in 1999 (updated in 2004)

ColorTunnel 2.0, a rewrite of HypnoTunnel, originally included in Hypnotizer 2000
Old version 1.1 here

Other hypnosis software:

Erotic Inducer (warning - adult related)

Relaxatron Stress Reliever

Grock

Custom Your Mindpower

MindController (mostly in Russian) links 1 2

Inducer

Brainwave Generator

Self Hypnosis Engineering Studio Standard and Pro

HelpMate

Helper

Adobe Audition (previously Cool Edit, previously MindSync) - brainwave generator

HypnoStudio

AutoZen (for Linux)

NeuroProgrammer

Hypnoice (hypnotic spiral induction)

SHARM (Self Hypnosis and Relaxation Machine)

Good hypnosis websites:

Voyer's Hypno Stuff

Animated online hypnosis

Deep Trances

HypnoFocus

Hypnotic backgrounds

Hypnosis Flash Animation (where I got the Brainwash preset)

InRapture

Erotic Hypnosis

Hypnosis and Mind Control in the Movies

Hypnotic Words

HypnoVideo

Hypnosis.com

General hypnosis sites

Hypnosis.com

Victoria M. Wizell, C.M. Ht. of Hypnotherapy of Nevada.
Information about hypnosis, self-hypnosis, weight-loss, sexual issues,
stress, smoking, and much more. Private sessions and extensive
selection of hypnosis programs available. http://www.hyptalk.com

HypnosisToday

More Links (go to the link section in the site)

Re:How about google?

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by Lxy (80823) Alter Relationship on Wednesday November 23, @08:34AM (#14100059)
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Try this as a Google search:

"Star Wars filetype:torrent"

They already have a torrent search. :-)
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by Anonymous Coward on Wednesday November 23, @08:49AM (#14100200)
This guy's raised 8.75 million in venture capital, and my copy of BitTorrent STILL hassles me for donations with a message about BitTorrent being Bram's "sole source of income"? Yeah, he's hurtin'.

I can't believe I'm eating IMITATION Kraft Dinner because I gave to this guy.
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SQL support!? Are you sure?

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by Anonymous Coward on Wednesday November 23, @08:18AM (#14099904)
Viper will also support relational data stores, of course, and access to those database tables using the SQL programming language.

Thank you Captain Obvious! Until I read the headline on slashdot, I was concerned the new DB2 might not support SQL queries. Now I can sleep tonight.

On a radical tangent, I was thinking of buying a new car. Has anyone heard if the new cars from GM have wheels that turn? I'm not sure because it doesn't say on the website anywhere. I really hope the new cars have wheels that turn. If the wheels didn't turn... that'd be like a database without SQL... or something.
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Re:Silly

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by fbg111 (529550) Friend of a Friend on Wednesday November 23, @03:56AM (#14098901)
(http://allthatishuman.blogspot.com/)
It's a bit simpler - Oracle is for anyone who knows what data integrity is and requires it, MySQL is for anyone else. PostgreSQL is the free, acceptable alternative to Oracle.
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by Anonymous Coward on Wednesday November 23, @05:32AM (#14099147)
When many people started using MySQL over other choices, the landscape was quite different.

* PostgreSQL wasn't available in a native version on Windows and their developers were still mastering the codebase they inherited (they mastered it around 7.3, before that they tiptoed around making massive changes).

* Firebird wasn't open sourced yet (before summer 2000).

* and SQLite wasn't released either (before summer 2000).

The above 3 conditions are no longer valid.

Many of us use MySQL because so many other software packages are already designed to work with it. Like Windows, it doesn't matter even if better alternatives exist because this one reason alone is most compelling if the software is "good enough".

In other words, the original technical reasons for choosing MySQL over others has been replaced by a compelling new reason: the same reason many people use Microsoft Windows today.

In a nutshell:

* If I want a super fastest lookup table without SQL, I'll use something like cdb or tinycdb.

* If I want a fast and simple database requiring only a tiny subset of SQL, I'll use something like SQLite.

* If I want a modern, full-featured, and free rdbms/ordbms, then I'll use PostgreSQL.

* If I want compatibility with most 3rd-party software, then I'll use MySQL.

All that is human must retrograde if it do not advance.


Slashdot | Ajax in Action

A Shorter, More Direct Alternative
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by kimanaw (795600) Alter Relationship on Wednesday November 23, @01:48PM (#14102798)
I read the sample chapters of the reviewed book and was underwhelmed. Chapter 4 spent way too much time trying to sound "impressive", with lots of UML diagrams and Design Patterns references. Plus, 615 pages for AJAX ? Unless 400 of those pages are weblinks to online references, I'm afraid its just killing a lot of trees.

I just picked up Foundations of Ajax [apress.com], and its a good, focused 273 pages, of which nearly half is resources and tools for implementing. I haven't had a chance to download and try out the examples, but the reference links all look like great resources. While I wish they'd skipped the usual Chapter 1 "Here's the history of the web" that any reader of the subject matter already knows, all in all, its a great way to cut thru the BS and get rolling with the AJAX concepts.

In summary:

* If you want to learn UML, buy a UML book
* If you want to learn Design Patterns, buy the GangofFour book.
* If you already know how to put together a webpage, write some Javascript, and maybe a little CSS, and just want to understand how it all to hangs together in AJAX, then Foundations of Ajax [apress.com] is probably a better choice than "Ajax in Action".

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Ajax Killed Himself

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by laoc00n (933461) Alter Relationship on Wednesday November 23, @02:17PM (#14103029)
Take a reliable, stateful transport protocol (TCP) and lobotomize it so that connection state gets thrown away. This is http. Take a platform-independent object technology (Java) and lobotomize it so that dumb xml data structures get passed to "stateless" objects (in other words, procedures), and all processing must happen at one end of the connection. This is Web applications. Take gui technology and lobotomize it so that screens must refresh one page at a time. This is a browser. So: having gone from a world of functional, stateful, distributed applications engineered to a true software model, we are now back (despite all the self-congratulatory rhetoric about "objects") to procedural programming and dumb terminals (meaning Web browsers). In other words, 1970s technology with pictures. Any half-wit can see that this situation is broken. How do we fix it? The Ajax answer is to keep all of the lobotomized bits and build increasingly Byzantine layers on top of the existing mess in order to re-introduce the capabilities that were hacked off in the first place. Brilliant.

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AJAX inthe Real World

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by Heembo (916647) Alter Relationship <jim AT manico DOT net> on Wednesday November 23, @01:49PM (#14102804)
In may ways, that book is out-of-date. Here is what is working for me *today*. There are many possibiliites, but my focus is Rapid Application Development - and these tools help me rock and roll, fast.

Last week I was tasked to replace several standard (but sometimes complex) HTML business forms with an AJAX solution. Here are the best tools I found after lots of research time. This is bleeding edge; but functional in Opera, Safari, IE XP, FF XP, FF OSX, no small feat.

1) AJFORM - submit a form via Javascript using HTTP post or get without refreshing the page. (next release in a few days, keep an eye on it, its brilliant and easy to use) http://redredmusic.com/brendon/ajform/ [redredmusic.com] 2) YOUR SERVER CODE - I use Java, but anything including ASP, CF, PHP - its all works. (Standard HTTP). Just needs to spit out XML, easy feat. 3) GOOGLES XPATH LIB - those of you who use Sarissa, drop it - she does not support Safari. Google's XPATH lib does, well, on all browsers you need. http://goog-ajaxslt.sourceforge.net/ [sourceforge.net] - this is the best and easiest way to "search into" XML data. You can use native DOM calls, but it takes about 10x as much time to get it right.

With AJFORM and Googles XPATH lib on the client, I was able to quickly and effectively start making business forms in AJAX that were "scarry fast" and WOW'ed all the folks who are paying the bills! YAY!

Whats your architecture for AJAX?
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"Web 2.0 and ..."
2. Democracy

The second big element of Web 2.0 is democracy. We now have several examples to prove that amateurs can surpass professionals, when they have the right kind of system to channel their efforts. Wikipedia may be the most famous. Experts have given Wikipedia middling reviews, but they miss the critical point: it's good enough. And it's free, which means people actually read it. On the web, articles you have to pay for might as well not exist. Even if you were willing to pay to read them yourself, you can't link to them. They're not part of the conversation.

Another place democracy seems to win is in deciding what counts as news. I never look at any news site now except Reddit. [2] I know if something major happens, or someone writes a particularly interesting article, it will show up there. Why bother checking the front page of any specific paper or magazine? Reddit's like an RSS feed for the whole web, with a filter for quality. Similar sites include Digg, a technology news site that's rapidly approaching Slashdot in popularity, and del.icio.us, the collaborative bookmarking network that set off the "tagging" movement. And whereas Wikipedia's main appeal is that it's good enough and free, these sites suggest that voters do a significantly better job than human editors.

The most dramatic example of Web 2.0 democracy is not in the selection of ideas, but their production. I've noticed for a while that the stuff I read on individual people's sites is as good as or better than the stuff I read in newspapers and magazines. And now I have independent evidence: the top links on Reddit are generally links to individual people's sites rather than to magazine articles or news stories.

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At Y Combinator we advise all the startups we fund never to lord it over users. Never make users register, unless you need to in order to store something for them. If you do make users register, never make them wait for a confirmation link in an email; in fact, don't even ask for their email address unless you need it for some reason. Don't ask them any unnecessary questions. Never send them email unless they explicitly ask for it. Never frame pages you link to, or open them in new windows. If you have a free version and a pay version, don't make the free version too restricted. And if you find yourself asking "should we allow users to do x?" just answer "yes" whenever you're unsure. Err on the side of generosity. .../...

The ultimate way to be nice to users is to give them something for free that competitors charge for. During the 90s a lot of people probably thought we'd have some working system for micropayments by now. In fact things have gone in other direction. The most successful sites are the ones that figure out new ways to give stuff away for free. Craigslist has largely destroyed the classified ad sites of the 90s, and OkCupid looks likely to do the same to the previous generation of dating sites.

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There's another thing all three components of Web 2.0 have in common. Here's a clue. Suppose you approached investors with the following idea for a Web 2.0 startup:
Sites like del.icio.us and flickr allow users to "tag" content with descriptive tokens. But there is also huge source of implicit tags that they ignore: the text within web links. Moreover, these links represent a social network connecting the individuals and organizations who created the pages, and by using graph theory we can compute from this network an estimate of the reputation of each member. We plan to mine the web for these implicit tags, and use them together with the reputation hierarchy they embody to enhance web searches.